"Say hello to your new sister!"
Bringing a new kitten into the household is a special and exciting time for all the family... except potentially for your current cat!
Regardless of how good-natured your current cat is, she's still a cat and is therefore instinctively very territorial and aware of her place in a strict social pecking order. Adding a cute ball of fluff into her environment can potentially trigger all sorts of negative reactions. Jealousy, because the newcomer is suddenly getting all the attention. Discomfort, because cats are notoriously particular about the cleanliness of their own toilet arrangements. Aggression and moodiness, because an irritating youngster is 'in her face' every hour of the day.
However, with a little forward planning, good psychology and consideration, you can help make the process of introduction relatively stress-free and build a solid foundation for the sort of friendship and companionship that makes it such a delight to be a 'two-cat family'.
If possible, before your new kitten comes home, take a new toy or a blanket to the breeder's premises or the pet shop, and get some of your new kitten's scent rubbed in. Then, leave this lying around at home for your existing cat to become familiar with. When they first meet, she'll recognise the scent as something non-threatening.
Prepare a separate room (maybe a spare bedroom, or the utility room) for the new kitten to occupy for the first few days, equipped with her own water bowl, food bowl, toys and bedding. Relax, this should only be a short-term measure.
On the day of the arrival, keep your existing cat apart in another room, also surrounded with her favorite things. Bring the new kitten into the house, give her a quick tour to start the process of acclimatization and then settle her into her own room.
Only now should you allow the resident cat out of her room (but make sure she's kept apart from the kitten). Let her smell your hands, covered with the scent of the kitten, and give her treats to comfort her and build an association between the new smell and 'good things happening'.
Gradually introduce the kitten's scent into the household over the first few days, swapping food bowls and bedding. As soon as they are both comfortable with each other's scent, allow them individually to explore the other's territory, whilst still keeping them apart.
The best time to make the formal introduction is at mealtime, when the desire for food will overcome all other distractions. As they meet for the first time, expect some growling and hissing - this is a normal part of them establishing their individual places within the hierarchy. Be ready with a blanket to separate them just in case a full-scale fight develops. But hopefully, your careful preparations will mean that by this stage, they 'recognize' each other sufficiently to co-exist for a few minutes over dinner.
Immediately after that first mealtime together, separate them and keep them apart until the next mealtime, gradually increasing the time they spend together. Share treats, affection and attention between them equally during their time together, not only to build positive associations but also to demonstrate that there is no favoritism.
Remember, as the 'leader of the pack', it's not your responsibility to adjudicate between them or gauge who needs to be treated as 'top cat' - they will sort this out between themselves quite naturally. You just need to maintain impartiality and fairness in all respects.
Everybody loves a cute kitten, and part of the joy of owning a second cat is making an enormous fuss of the new baby in the family. But by taking a calm, paced approach to the process of introduction, by laying the foundations of a respectful partnership between the older and the younger cat, and by sharing the love equally, you'll all get even more love in return from both cats.
And that's a recipe for a very happy two-cat family!
One of our staff authors prepared this article for you
Delectable chunks with tender ocean fish smothered in a rich gravy
Delicious taste of gourmet minced beef in precisely balanced nutrition. Provides a synergistic ingredient blend to help support energy & activity level.
Delicious taste of gourmet chicken in precisely balanced nutrition. Provide a synergistic ingredient blend to help support energy & activity level.
Over 70% of cats lost weight within 10 weeks when fed this nutrition
Improves Everyday Ability to Get Up & Go
Over 70% of cats lost weight within 10 weeks when fed this nutrition
Supports energy level and beautiful fur in indoor cats
Healthy digestion for easy litter box clean-up
With delicious chunks in a decadent gravy
Supports the health of the whole urinary system with optimal levels of magnesium
Delicious seared tuna paired with tender carrots in a mouthwatering sauce
Supports digestive health, nourishes skin and promotes a lustrous fur
Supports the health of the whole urinary system with optimal levels of magnesium
Natural fiber comfortably reduces hairballs
With delicious chunks in a decadent gravy
Supports digestive health, nourishes skin and promotes a lustrous fur
Clinically proven kibble technology to reduce plaque & tartar build-up
Supports energy level and beautiful fur in mature indoor cats
With delicious chunks in a decadent gravy
Precisely balanced nutrition with the delicious taste of savory minced salmon to help fuel the energy needs of cats during the prime of their life
Learn about the warning signs, symptoms, and treatments of urinary tract disease in cats and the affect on your cat's health and well-being.
Most cat owners have to deal with hairballs at some point. Learn everything you need to know about hairballs and how to help your cat manage them.
Learn how to keep your new kitten active and playful, which can help her maintain her ideal weight.
Learn to help cats and kids enjoy fun and safe playtime together. From introductions to holding, here's how to play with cats when kids are involved.
While it might be nearly impossible to separate your cat from your Christmas tree, learn ways you can combat her curiosity and keep her out of harm's way.
Discover whether or not your cat can eat eggs and what the benefits or potential hazards are if she does.
Are cats good with kids? Happily, the answer is yes! Use these tips to find the best cat for your family.
Having trouble with your cat's bad behavior? Learn how to effectively discipline your cat with this helpful list of do's and don'ts.
Learn how to make your own DIY cat stain remover, as well as how to remove cat odors from your home.
If you're a current cat owner that is thinking about getting a new kitten, you should read our helpful tips for getting cat and kittens acquainted.
It is a common misconception that cats should be given milk regularly as a treat.
Ensure you are providing the best care possible for your kitten by making regular visits to the veterinary. Learn why here.
Learn more about stage 1 kidney disease in cats, such as the cause, symptoms, treatment and how the proper food can help manage her condition.
Want to learn how to build a catio? Get started with DIY cat enclosure basics, including what to consider and how a catio can benefit your cat.
Here's a simple, cost-effective way to create a DIY cat-proof toilet paper holder cover that keeps your feline friend from destroying your TP.
Discover how to identify cat sensitive skin and what you can do to help your cat thrive from head to paw.
Learn helpful care tips for your kitten in their first four months, including essential topics like bedding, food, using the litter box, grooming & more.
Why does your cat's tongue feels so rough? Why does their tongue hang out of their mouth sometimes? Learn fun and interesting info about your cat's tongue.
Concerned about leaving a cat home alone? Considering if she's a kitten or senior cat and her relationship with you can help you decide how long is safe.
Senior Cats & Their Special Care Needs
Our low calorie formula helps you control your cat's weight. It's packed with high-quality protein for building lean muscles, and made with purposeful ingredients for a flavorful, nutritious meal. Clinically proven antioxidants, Vitamin C+E, help promote a healthy immune system.
Our low calorie formula helps you control your cat's weight. It's packed with high-quality protein for building lean muscles, and made with purposeful ingredients for a flavorful, nutritious meal. Clinically proven antioxidants, Vitamin C+E, help promote a healthy immune system.
©2025 Hill's Pet Nutrition, Inc. As used herein, denotes registered trademark status in the U.S. only; registration status in other geographies may be different. Your use of this site is subject to the terms of our Legal Statement. About our Ads. Cookie Consent Tool